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Are parents best teachers?

Obviously, the first teachers we have in our lives in most cases are our parents.
They teach us to walk, to speak, and to have good manners before we reach
“the real world. ” More than even the professional teachers that we have at
school, parents are generally the most involved in the development and
education of children.
Almost for sure our parents are the best teachers at the beginning of our lives,
which actually corresponds to the parents’ role in nature. Parents are most
committed and involved in teaching their children; they have a kind of instinct
to sacrifice a part of themselves for the betterment of their children. They love
us and have great patience while passing down their knowledge to us. They
wish us a success and thus will not teach us bad things. And of course, implicit
learning occurs when children unconsciously copy some of their parents’ habits
and styles of behavior.
During the second stage of child development, adolescence, parents can still be
in the best position to offer advice even though the children might not accept it.
In this case, perhaps the child’s friends would be the best teachers. Adolescents
are notoriously rebellious in many cultures and may automatically reject any
advice from their parents. My first marriage for instance, was solely a matter of
doing the opposite when my parents tried to intrude in offering their advice. So
in such matters, parents should be much more flexible and be rather the
partners with their children. So we can see that being a teacher of growing child
become more and more complicated case as the time passes and many parents
are simply not able to meet the increased demands.
On the other hand, I would say that parents are not professional teachers and
they tend to be very biased by their love of their children. So wishing good
things and an easy life may prevent children from maturation. In any case,
parents usually can present only one viewpoint of the world, while good
teaching should be based on different attitudes. Thus, when children go to
school and have a great diversity of teachers, they learn much more than their
parents could probably give them. Furthermore, once our parents get older, they
become more conservative and cannot always be objective in regard to modern
trends and fashions. Thus we need to take their advice with caution during that
period. However, some kind of intuition that I believe shared between relatives
about what everybody needs and great love that exists in families still makes
our parents very good teachers and advisers at any time.
In conclusion, while parents are not the ideal teachers, and well-rounded
children will generally need a great diversity of teachers in their lives in order
to have a more accurate view of the world, parents are generally the most
committed of all teachers and have the greatest emotional investment in their
children and their future.

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